I once know this girl named Apple. She's at this time where it is very important for her to choose the right guy. Again, how do we know who is the right guy?
I guess a big part of being a woman makes us feel like we are emotional about everything, while some of us accepts that as a fact, Apple spends her day being strong and portrays what all guys want ~ emotional independent. She would keep herself occupy with her busy life, making new friends, hanging out with friends, making exciting trips, playing poker.
She's not exactly the girl-next-door type, but she's not too bad of a girl .. besides the fact that she drinks, smokes and gambles. Apple has a certain character to her that no one else would probably have. In some ways, she is special; and she truly believes that Mr. Orange will just have to accept her the way she is.
In her mind... Mr. Orange needs to be the guy she can see him portraying as a father of her kids, someone who she can smoke together when stress, someone who just loves her for the amount of time she needs to get ready @_@.
She’s the type of girl that you would feel very comfortable with, she would definitely take a moment of her time to think on behalf of someone ~ sometimes, her endless caring to her friends in the most un-selfish manner always gets her into troubles. Troubles that would end up hurting herself more than anything else.
Many moments in life when things gets tough - she has friends everywhere to care about her, she sincerely shares her stories and her troubles and because of her sincerity – she gets advices and attention that she needs for her to get her Mojo back.
There are so much of her that is great... and there’s always a saying ~ an Apple a day – keeps the doctor away. Guys need to discover this fantastic gal and “activate” her once again..
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Apples and strawberries goes together?
I'm sorry but Apple sounds like she really needs to be emotionally independent, not just pretend to be like that. Apple seems to be living in a fairy-tale world and the real world isn't like that, that's why she's facing hardships and is pining for that 'right' guy constantly. That's really sad. Her selfless-ness is just a reflection of herself - she doesn't love herself that much. Keep dreaming that Mr. Orange will "just have to accept her" is not the best kind of thinking already. Because if he really does accept her like that, she will remain problematic.
She needs help, because all the Mr. Oranges, Mr. Straberries, Mr. Melons and what not, will never want to be with someone like Apple.
Mr. A:
as much as a woman tries to be emotional independent. it's something that we are made of. that's why we are female u know?
Interestingly, guys are so emotional independent - why couldn't they be more emotional dependent?
dude... that's why there's a difference between girl & guy u know... ^_^
what you are saying are quite true in terms of "just have to accept her" ... the question is - if we change ourselves... how soon would the old self come out as the time progresses?
babes : Yes. Apples & Strawberries quite similar in fact :) ^_^
Wow Mr. A, you ALMOST sound like u know what u r talking about. Except that you don't, coz it's very obvious that you are only making a conclusion from a blog post containing several descriptive paragraphs. Bravo bravo... in fact, you sound ideal for Apple. But despite how "problematic" you make her sound, she's waaayyyyy out of your league. Doubt she'll have space to fit you in her friend list.
Anonymous 1: Just like how u've concluded and judge someone by reading a blog post, I'm going to conclude and judge you from the comment you made. You're a cowardly ass. Enuf said.
Anonymous 2: U said Mr.A is ideal for apple??? How insulting....
Jolene: Some ppl just don't have the guts to show their face when commenting. I wonder if its they are the same ass who concluded you're clingy and with the wrong guy. lol...
Hi I'm Mr. A and I'm female :)
It's not true to say that females are generally emotionally dependent. Yes there are emotionally dependent guys, that's why it's a personality thing, not a male-female thing. And why is the personality like that? It's due to a lot of things.. like upbringing, parents relationship, rejection, past experience.. everyone has a different experience. And you asked a good question!- how soon will the old self come out? that is up to you my dear. We are in control of ourselves :) Good luck!
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind"
Bad-man :-P
If someone cannot accept the way you are, why bother! Its a bad orange; go throw it in klang river next chap goh mei and let some fugly auntie pick it up...
sorry .. MISS A~~ :) didn't know. u sound like a guy - guess that pretty much sums up that you're emotional independent? U see? is it really emotional independent who you are?? deep down inside... or you're born with it? that's the question - like Apple ~ she's emotional dependent - but due to situation/ environment - she'll have to live with being emotional independent u know ~~~~
babes: i think i know who was the one who wrote the you're clingy with the wrong guy...
kevin: hahahaha... ^_^ CNY orange... lol funnyZ~
everyone need/like to find someone that he/she feel good about their self.. IMHO relationship grows together both would merge their pro & cons and shape/create something.. sometime it doesn't necessary mold out what best for both.. learn to let goes is as important as learn to accept..
apples, oranges, strawberries ... ish ish, i'm hungry now ... damnit!!
watever it is, set ur sight for ur own rainbow, and sometimes we dont have to look too far ahead for you may just be standing on it ...
Jack : What's IMHO?.... trully agree on learning to let go is as important as learning to accept. Understanding is the key word i guess...
JC: standing on it??? where? who? but you all not available anymore wor.. lol ^_^
IMHO.. In My Humble Opinion.. :p
Jack : LOL.. i actually thought it was some relationship Model... ^_^ oh dearzz.. hahahhaa ~~
Finding the rainbow is easy, jeeping it can be a little complicated. Until the day that you accept that this beautiful rainbow has shortfall too, you'll continue to search for the perfect one which probably never existed in the first place.
talking about rainbow ~ rainbow only shows up when sun shines after the rain ... mmmm
First its about fruits...(btw, I like wat Kevin said about the chap goh mei idea. lol)
Now its about rainbows?
Whats next? hahaha
maybe i should write a piece.. about different type of ppl - in relations to alcohol beverages... lol.. hmm.. interesting.
Next?
Wanna hear the superman and wonder woman joke?
Batman
jom mabok
Another "jom mabukz" invitation.....
sorry
god ~~~ hahahahaha always the delayed and one word entrance... and for the wrong reason. classic.. just classic. :)
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